Topics on Aging

By Juan Gallo

A Song in His Heart 

August 15, 2022

Alive and Well: Les’ perspective on aging
Les Weiner turned 75 last month. As a volunteer, he leads Bible studies at care centers and visits the Heart2Heart office to entertain the staff with a song. 

We asked him, and three others, to tell us what it means to grow older. Here’s what he had to say. 

I just turned 75. So I guess I am a senior. My maturity level is not quite up there.

I do view most people as older than me. Many of us, men and women, really picture ourselves in our 20s. And that’s where we stop as long as we retain that ability to be relevant.

I look at myself as relevant. I’m keeping busy.

I also have many of the problems that seniors my age have. I’m a cancer survivor. I plan my life around doctor’s visits, which I didn’t think I would.

I don’t ignore my age. I just don’t let it define me. I don’t see myself as old until I get offered a senior discount.

Not everyone has had the greatest life. I get that. All of a sudden, they wake up and they’re old. Maybe they don’t have a song in their life. Maybe they didn’t dance enough when they were able to dance.

Our tents break down. That’s a fact of life. At a memorial service, you realize that it’s about what a person does with that dash between those years, between the date of birth and death.

I visit four nursing homes. There are some people I see that have given up, and you can see that they’ve given up. They’re cranky, they have their head down. They’ve lost their reason for living.

I don’t think I’ve lost my reason. I try to find the fun in everything I do.

Some volunteers would pinch a senior’s cheek and say, “Oh, aren’t you so cute?”

I’m not going to pinch their cheek. I’d rather hug them and say “thank you” because they’re relevant.

Recently, I had to have an emergency surgery. I was on my back for two and a half months. While I was in the hospital, I led a couple of Bible studies. I couldn’t wait to get back.

But my focus wasn’t on myself. Before, in my younger years, it was all about me.

I grew up. It’s not about me.

I’d like to continue on the same path I’m on.  I have a great, loving wife who is my partner in everything that we do. I’m excited that I wake up every day.

My hope is that I’m able to share something with younger people to help them find their way to their ministry.

Not everyone has had the greatest life. I get that. All of a sudden, they wake up and they’re old.

Maybe they don’t have a song in their life. Maybe they didn’t dance enough when they were able to dance.

I’ve tried to dance every moment of my life. And I sing when I feel a song in my heart.

To volunteer with Les, check out Heart2Heart’s outreach opportunities

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Juan Gallo
Juan Gallo is the CEO of Heart2Heart Outreach, where he oversees the mobilization of volunteers to provide hope, share love and restore purpose to the lives of the aging population across South Florida.

He also serves as a local pastor and as an adjunct professor at Trinity International University, where he is teaching a course on diversity and aging. Juan has a master’s degree in counseling and psychology and is a licensed mental health counselor intern.

2 Comments

  1. Ramon Marrero

    Great inspiration. Thank you Les and Heart2Heart for posting.

    The joy of the Lord is our Strength!
    – Nehemiah 8:10

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  2. William Weller

    Great seeing that age us just a number and I dont let define me as old.Still working thanks be to GOD.As long as I can get up its a blessing.

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